Monday, March 25, 2013

Day 35: Seeing the People Around Us; Each Person Around Us

Scripture Readings: Isaiah 42.1-9 and John 12.1-11

The man who washes cars does not own one.  The clerk who files cancelled checks at the bank has $2.02 in her account.  The woman who copy-edits medical textbooks has not been to a dentist in a decade. 

This is the forgotten America.  At the bottom of the working world, millions live in the shadow of prosperity, in the twilight between poverty and well-being. 
They are shaped by their invisible hardships. 
David Shipler:  The Working Poor (Invisible in America)

“Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor?” asked Judas, after Mary poured expensive perfume on the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair.

Why indeed?  It is a good question.  It is a question that seems, at first, to be legitimate…reasonable.  Jesus loved the poor.  The poor loved Jesus.  If anyone should say, “give this to the poor,” surely it would be this Jesus.

But he accepted the woman’s extravagance.  And, according to the story, he saw through Judas, whose motives were not all that pure to begin with.

But, there is a simple, hidden truth, in this story, and in story after story told about Jesus. 

Jesus paid attention to actual people.  Real, actual people.  You know, the human beings he encountered.  In this case, a woman who wept in advance at the coming end to this most special relationship.  Her act was so all-consuming that she “wasted” her expensive perfume, using it all, filling the house with the  experience (“the house was filled with the fragrance of her perfume”).

In a similar account, in Luke 7, (the same Mary – a different woman?), we learn that the woman “had lived a sinful life,” and in this account she “wet his feet with her tears.”  But, to Simon, the Pharisee, the woman was not a woman at all – but a prop, a nuisance, something less than human.  So, Jesus asked the question for the ages:  “Do you see this woman?’’

It is the only question ever worth asking.  “Do you see this person?”

We might put it this way – Jesus opened his circle to the people in front of his face.  Whoever they were.  Whatever they were.  Because, what they were were human beings.  People.

In the Isaiah passage, this is foretold.  Those who are excluded from the “circle” – the circle of the acceptable folks --  were to be included.  Some of the “exclusions” are listed:  Gentiles – he had light for them.  Prisoners – he wanted to free them.  Those in darkness.  He wanted them to see.

Jesus saw each person, regardless of their group, their failures, their blindness, their sin, as a person – even a woman who would waste her expensive perfume in one “irrational” act. 

So, it is the season of lent.  “What shall we give up?  What shall we not do?”  Maybe these are the wrong questions.  Maybe there is only one question:  do you see the people around you, each one, as an individual?  Do you see their captivity, do you feel for their blindness (and, for your own blindness)?  Can you focus on a person, this person, whether poor, or “outside of your circle,” in a way that helps make them feel noticed, accepted, appreciated… more fully human?  If you can’t, if I can’t, we’ve got some soul searching to do. 

Treating people as people – as human beings first and always.  Including the poor among us – the people that are so easy to overlook, to ignore.  The “invisible.”  This is always the challenge, for this season of lent, and any other season of life.
 
Randy Mayeux, Adult Sunday school class teacher